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Nine of Pentacles — suit of Pentacles, original illustration from the MyMysticDay tarot deck
Element
Earth
Arcana
Minor · Pentacles
Attribution
Venus in Virgo
Feeling shows as
Time and provision
Stage
The near-complete

Tarot as feelings

Nine of Pentacles
as feelings

They enjoy you, and they do not need you, and both of those are true at once.

Why

The Nine of Pentacles is affection from a self-sufficient position. It is a earth card, so what it reports is what they have actually done about it rather than the whole of what they feel.

Upright and reversed

What it is like to hold this feeling.

A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.

Upright

The Nine of Pentacles is affection from a self-sufficient position. This person has built a life they like and they are not looking for rescue, completion or a role to fill. What they feel for you is a genuine pleasure rather than a necessity, which is a colder sentence than the reality: chosen rather than needed is the better half of that bargain. The card is clear about the terms, though. Anyone hoping to be indispensable here is going to be disappointed by somebody who is perfectly all right alone.

Reversed

Reversed, the independence has become a wall. Self-sufficiency used to avoid depending on anybody, or a person keeping their life deliberately closed so that nothing can be lost from it.

Reversed late in a suit, the card usually reads as excess or as refusal to finish. Either the feeling has been taken past its useful point, or a conclusion is being avoided because reaching it would mean something.

Why the suit decides the answer

Earth does not feel the way the other three do.

The same rank in two suits describes two genuinely different states. This is the largest single fact about any card in a feelings position — larger than the picture on it.

What it carries

Earth proves things. A Pentacles card in a feelings position reports what somebody has actually done — time given, arrangements made, a life quietly rearranged — on the principle that with this element, behaviour is the evidence and words are a commentary on it.

How you would notice

You will know an Earth feeling by its dullness. It shows up as reliability, provision and the unglamorous effort nobody notices, and it very rarely says anything that would sound good repeated to a friend.

Where it misleads

Earth assumes that provision is intimacy. A Pentacles feeling can be entirely sincere and leave the person receiving it well looked after and unsure they were ever wanted.

Where the feeling is in its arc

The near-complete.

At a Nine the feeling has almost everything it was going to get. The state described is nearly finished and the person holding it knows the shape of it.

Nines are close and slightly solitary. What is usually missing is the last thing, and the last thing is generally the other person.

Venus in Virgo, the second decan. Venus is what colours the feeling and Virgo is the temperature it runs at, which is why this card cannot mean quite what the ones either side of it mean. The two elements are the same, so nothing here is moderated: this is earth undiluted, at its most characteristic and its least balanced.

The same card, four situations

It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.

Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.

Someone you have just met

For a new connection, Pentacles is slow and unusually trustworthy. Nothing in this suit arrives early, and what does arrive has generally been thought about for longer than it appears. A number this late in a suit is doing something odd at the start of a connection: it describes a feeling further along than the relationship is, which is worth noticing.

A relationship you are already in

Inside an established relationship, Pentacles measures the structure rather than the mood. It reports whether this is being built on, which is the question that outlasts whether it currently feels good. Inside something already established, nines are close and slightly solitary. What is usually missing is the last thing, and the last thing is generally the other person.

Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with

For a connection that has ended, Earth is the slowest suit to let go and the least likely to say so. A Pentacles card here often describes somebody who has changed nothing about how they feel and everything about what they are willing to do. This late in the suit the feeling has run most of its course, so what the card describes is a settled state rather than an open question.

A feeling neither of you has said out loud

When nothing has been said, Pentacles suggests the evidence is already available and is not being read as evidence. This suit declares itself by doing, and expects that to be understood. Applied to something unspoken, at a Nine the feeling has almost everything it was going to get. The state described is nearly finished and the person holding it knows the shape of it.

The part most readings skip

What this card cannot tell you.

A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.

  • A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
  • Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
  • One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.

Keep going

A feeling is one position in a spread.

The full meaning of Nine of Pentacles — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.

Clear answers

Frequently asked questions

What does Nine of Pentacles mean as feelings?
They enjoy you, and they do not need you, and both of those are true at once. The Nine of Pentacles is affection from a self-sufficient position. It is a earth card, so what it reports is what they have actually done about it rather than the whole of what they feel.
Is Nine of Pentacles a positive card for feelings?
It is neither good news nor bad news on its own. Earth assumes that provision is intimacy. A Pentacles feeling can be entirely sincere and leave the person receiving it well looked after and unsure they were ever wanted. What the card actually says is this: they enjoy you, and they do not need you, and both of those are true at once. Whether that is welcome depends entirely on what you were hoping for, and the card is indifferent to that.
What does Nine of Pentacles reversed mean as feelings?
Reversed, the independence has become a wall. Self-sufficiency used to avoid depending on anybody, or a person keeping their life deliberately closed so that nothing can be lost from it. Reversed late in a suit, the card usually reads as excess or as refusal to finish. Either the feeling has been taken past its useful point, or a conclusion is being avoided because reaching it would mean something.
What does Nine of Pentacles mean as how an ex feels about you?
For a connection that has ended, Earth is the slowest suit to let go and the least likely to say so. A Pentacles card here often describes somebody who has changed nothing about how they feel and everything about what they are willing to do. This late in the suit the feeling has run most of its course, so what the card describes is a settled state rather than an open question.
Does Nine of Pentacles mean they will act on it?
Earth proves things by doing them, so a Pentacles feeling is often already being acted on in ways that are easy to miss because they are practical rather than romantic. This late in the suit the pattern is established, and established patterns are what people do next.