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The Star — Major Arcana XVII, original illustration from the MyMysticDay tarot deck
Element
Air
Arcana
Major
Attribution
Aquarius
Feeling shows as
A theme running the situation
Stage
The feeling is being extended again after damage

Tarot as feelings

The Star
as feelings

They feel hopeful about you, quietly, after something that had cost them.

Why

The Star is gentle and it comes after difficulty — that sequence is the card. As a trump it describes a theme large enough to be running the situation rather than a passing mood, which is why it outweighs the cards around it.

Upright and reversed

What it is like to hold this feeling.

A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.

Upright

The Star is gentle and it comes after difficulty — that sequence is the card. The feeling is open, unguarded and slightly tentative, the way trust is when it is being extended again rather than for the first time. There is no urgency in it and no game. What it describes is somebody letting themselves believe that this might be all right, which is a more fragile state than the confidence it can resemble. Handled carelessly it closes; handled well it is one of the steadiest beginnings in the deck.

Reversed

Reversed, the hope will not catch. They want to believe in this and cannot quite, usually because something older is still in the way. Discouragement rather than disinterest, and the distinction matters.

Reversed, a trump is a theme being resisted, delayed or lived out privately. The theme does not disappear when the card is inverted — it goes underground, which is generally harder on everybody than the upright version.

Where the feeling is in its arc

The feeling is being extended again after damage.

The Star is trust offered a second time. The feeling is open, unarmoured and arriving after something that had made it reasonable not to.

What is missing is protection, and that is exactly what makes this position worth something. It is fragile in a way confidence never is.

Attributed to the sign Aquarius, the fixed air of perspective, distance and the long view. A trump carrying a sign describes a climate rather than an event — the weather a feeling is happening in, and weather lasts.

The same card, four situations

It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.

Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.

Someone you have just met

A zodiacal trump at the start of something describes the climate the connection is beginning in rather than a reaction to you. What it reports will still be true in a month, which very little else this early will be. Here specifically, the Star is trust offered a second time. The feeling is open, unarmoured and arriving after something that had made it reasonable not to.

A relationship you are already in

Inside an established relationship a zodiacal trump names the season the two of you are in. Seasons are long, and what is happening is usually larger than the week it is being felt in. Here specifically, the Star is trust offered a second time. The feeling is open, unarmoured and arriving after something that had made it reasonable not to.

Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with

For a connection that has ended, a zodiacal trump describes a condition rather than a decision. It says what the ending was made of and declines to predict whether the weather changes. Here specifically, the Star is trust offered a second time. The feeling is open, unarmoured and arriving after something that had made it reasonable not to.

A feeling neither of you has said out loud

When nothing has been said, a zodiacal trump means the silence has a climate to it — a settled condition rather than a held breath, and conditions do not resolve because somebody asks. Here specifically, the Star is trust offered a second time. The feeling is open, unarmoured and arriving after something that had made it reasonable not to.

The part most readings skip

What this card cannot tell you.

A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.

  • A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
  • Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
  • One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.

Keep going

A feeling is one position in a spread.

The full meaning of The Star — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.

Clear answers

Frequently asked questions

What does The Star mean as feelings?
They feel hopeful about you, quietly, after something that had cost them. The Star is gentle and it comes after difficulty — that sequence is the card. As a trump it describes a theme large enough to be running the situation rather than a passing mood, which is why it outweighs the cards around it.
Is The Star a positive card for feelings?
Trumps are not sorted into good and bad, and this one is no exception: it describes the scale of what is happening rather than its outcome. What the card actually says is this: they feel hopeful about you, quietly, after something that had cost them. Whether that is welcome depends entirely on what you were hoping for, and the card is indifferent to that.
What does The Star reversed mean as feelings?
Reversed, the hope will not catch. They want to believe in this and cannot quite, usually because something older is still in the way. Discouragement rather than disinterest, and the distinction matters. Reversed, a trump is a theme being resisted, delayed or lived out privately. The theme does not disappear when the card is inverted — it goes underground, which is generally harder on everybody than the upright version.
What does The Star mean as how an ex feels about you?
For a connection that has ended, a zodiacal trump describes a condition rather than a decision. It says what the ending was made of and declines to predict whether the weather changes. Here specifically, the Star is trust offered a second time. The feeling is open, unarmoured and arriving after something that had made it reasonable not to.
Does The Star mean they will act on it?
A trump describes a theme rather than an intention, so it says a great deal about the weather and very little about the decision taken in it. The card is large enough that whatever happens will not be small.