- Element
- Fire
- Arcana
- Minor · Wands
- Attribution
- Mars in Aries
- Feeling shows as
- Action and pursuit
- Stage
- The pair
Two of Wands
as feelings
They are considering you as part of a plan they have not committed to yet.
Why
The Two of Wands is interest at the planning stage. It is a fire card, so what it reports is what they want and are moving toward rather than the whole of what they feel.
Upright and reversed
What it is like to hold this feeling.
A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.
Upright
The Two of Wands is interest at the planning stage. They are looking at what this could become and weighing it against the other directions available to them, which is less romantic than it sounds and more serious than it looks. Nothing here is casual — the card implies that you have entered their thinking about the future — and nothing here is decided. What they feel is genuine and currently held at arm's length while they work out whether it fits the life they are picturing.
Reversed
Reversed, the planning has become a substitute for moving. They have imagined this thoroughly and taken no step toward it, or they have quietly concluded it does not fit and have not said so.
Reversed in the early numbers, the movement is delay rather than denial. The feeling described is genuine and something is holding it just short of arriving: timing, circumstance, or a hesitation that has not yet been examined.
Why the suit decides the answer
Fire does not feel the way the other three do.
The same rank in two suits describes two genuinely different states. This is the largest single fact about any card in a feelings position — larger than the picture on it.
Fire does not feel so much as want. A Wands card in a feelings position is describing appetite, momentum and the pull toward — the part of caring that makes somebody act rather than the part that makes them tender.
You will know a Wands feeling by movement. It turns up, it initiates, it makes plans. What it is markedly worse at is sitting still with you when nothing is happening.
Fire mistakes intensity for depth, and it cools without meaning anything by it. A Wands feeling that has gone quiet has usually not turned into a decision; it has simply stopped burning at that particular spot.
Where the feeling is in its arc
The pair.
At a Two the feeling has acquired a second person. It is no longer a private state; there is now something between you that has to be held by somebody.
A Two resolves nothing by itself. It holds only while it is being held, and both parties usually know it.
Mars in Aries, the first decan. Mars is what colours the feeling and Aries is the temperature it runs at, which is why this card cannot mean quite what the ones either side of it mean. The two elements are the same, so nothing here is moderated: this is fire undiluted, at its most characteristic and its least balanced.
The same card, four situations
It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.
Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.
Someone you have just met
For something that has only just started, Fire is the most flattering and least reliable of the four. The heat is genuine and it has had nothing to prove itself against. At this stage the feeling and the connection are at the same point, which is unusual and makes the card unusually easy to trust.
A relationship you are already in
Inside an established relationship, Wands is asking about desire rather than security. It reports whether somebody still moves toward you, which is a different question from whether they intend to stay. Inside something already established, a Two resolves nothing by itself. It holds only while it is being held, and both parties usually know it.
Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with
For a connection that has ended, Fire is the suit most likely to return and least likely to have thought about it. Wands reappear because the pull did, not because anything was resolved. This early in the suit the feeling has not finished moving, which is why cards like this one appear so often for endings that did not feel finished.
A feeling neither of you has said out loud
When nothing has been said, a Wands card is usually the easiest of the four to read from outside, because Fire is bad at concealment. If the feeling is there, somebody is already doing something about it. Applied to something unspoken, at a Two the feeling has acquired a second person. It is no longer a private state; there is now something between you that has to be held by somebody.
The part most readings skip
What this card cannot tell you.
A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.
- A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
- Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
- One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.
Keep going
A feeling is one position in a spread.
The full meaning of Two of Wands — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.
