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King of Swords — suit of Swords, original illustration from the MyMysticDay tarot deck
Element
Air
Arcana
Minor · Swords
Attribution
Air of Air
Feeling shows as
Words and conclusions
Stage
The decider

Tarot as feelings

King of Swords
as feelings

They have thought this through and reached a position they can defend.

Why

The King of Swords is feeling submitted to reason. It is a air card, so what it reports is what they have concluded and are prepared to say rather than the whole of what they feel.

Upright and reversed

What it is like to hold this feeling.

A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.

Upright

The King of Swords is feeling submitted to reason. This person has examined the situation, weighed it against principle and arrived at a conclusion — and what they feel now operates within that conclusion rather than against it. It sounds unromantic and it produces some of the most reliable commitments in the deck, because a decision made this way does not blow about. The limitation is temperature. This King can state a position with complete accuracy and leave the other person unsure they were being loved.

Reversed

Reversed, the reasoning has gone wrong or has become a weapon. Judgement delivered coldly, or a person arguing themselves into and out of a feeling they will not simply admit to.

Reversed, a court card is most usefully read as the same temperament under pressure, or as that way of feeling in yourself rather than in somebody else. It is very rarely a bad person and very frequently an unbalanced one.

Why the suit decides the answer

Air does not feel the way the other three do.

The same rank in two suits describes two genuinely different states. This is the largest single fact about any card in a feelings position — larger than the picture on it.

What it carries

Air thinks about what it feels. A Swords card in a feelings position is reporting the account somebody has constructed — what they have concluded, what they have told themselves, what they are prepared to say out loud — rather than the raw state underneath it.

How you would notice

You will know a Swords feeling by the presence of a verdict. These cards come with reasoning attached, and the reasoning is doing at least as much work as the emotion is.

Where it misleads

Air mistakes its conclusions for facts. A Swords feeling is only as sound as the information it was built from, and this suit contains the deck's best cards for a story told inwardly until it became true.

Where the feeling is in its arc

The decider.

A King feels from a settled position. The state has been evaluated, accepted and organised into a policy, which is why Kings are steady and why they can be hard to reach. What a King feels has usually been decided some time ago and will not be revisited casually.

A court card describes how somebody feels rather than how much, which is why it is a poor source of reassurance and a good source of prediction

Air of Air. Kings are the suit directed outward — the element organized, delegated and answerable to somebody, and here that faculty is applied to what they have concluded and are prepared to say. The two elements are the same, so nothing here is moderated: this is air undiluted, at its most characteristic and its least balanced.

The same card, four situations

It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.

Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.

Someone you have just met

For a new connection, Swords means somebody is assessing rather than falling. That is colder than it sounds and it is not bad news: a judgement formed early tends to hold. A King this early means a decision has already been taken. That is faster than it looks — Kings do not fall, they conclude — and it will not be revisited casually.

A relationship you are already in

Inside an established relationship, Swords is almost always about what has been said or withheld. The suit measures the state of the conversation, and in a long relationship the conversation is frequently the whole of the problem. A King inside an established relationship describes a settled policy rather than a mood, which is why this rank is so stable and so hard to shift when it is wrong.

Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with

For a connection that has ended, Swords is the suit of the post-mortem. It describes somebody still working out what happened, and that process can run for a very long time without producing a move. A King after an ending has generally closed the file. What is felt may be entirely intact and the position on it has been decided.

A feeling neither of you has said out loud

When nothing has been said, a Swords card is the most literal of the four: the silence is the subject. Something has been thought through and not stated, and the withholding is deliberate. A King says things when he has concluded them and not before. An unspoken feeling here has usually been fully reasoned and is waiting on an occasion.

The part most readings skip

What this card cannot tell you.

A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.

  • A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
  • Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
  • One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.

Keep going

A feeling is one position in a spread.

The full meaning of King of Swords — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.

Clear answers

Frequently asked questions

What does King of Swords mean as feelings?
They have thought this through and reached a position they can defend. The King of Swords is feeling submitted to reason. It is a air card, so what it reports is what they have concluded and are prepared to say rather than the whole of what they feel.
Is King of Swords a positive card for feelings?
It is neither good news nor bad news on its own. Air mistakes its conclusions for facts. A Swords feeling is only as sound as the information it was built from, and this suit contains the deck's best cards for a story told inwardly until it became true. What the card actually says is this: they have thought this through and reached a position they can defend. Whether that is welcome depends entirely on what you were hoping for, and the card is indifferent to that.
What does King of Swords reversed mean as feelings?
Reversed, the reasoning has gone wrong or has become a weapon. Judgement delivered coldly, or a person arguing themselves into and out of a feeling they will not simply admit to. Reversed, a court card is most usefully read as the same temperament under pressure, or as that way of feeling in yourself rather than in somebody else. It is very rarely a bad person and very frequently an unbalanced one.
What does King of Swords mean as how an ex feels about you?
For a connection that has ended, Swords is the suit of the post-mortem. It describes somebody still working out what happened, and that process can run for a very long time without producing a move. A King after an ending has generally closed the file. What is felt may be entirely intact and the position on it has been decided.
Does King of Swords mean they will act on it?
Air states its conclusions, so a Swords feeling tends to become a conversation rather than a gesture. What arrives is usually words, and usually more direct than expected. As a court card it describes a temperament, and temperament is the most reliable predictor of behaviour in the deck.