- Element
- Fire
- Arcana
- Minor · Wands
- Attribution
- Jupiter in Leo
- Feeling shows as
- Action and pursuit
- Stage
- The recovery
Six of Wands
as feelings
They feel proud of you, and pleased to be seen beside you.
Why
The Six of Wands is admiration in public. It is a fire card, so what it reports is what they want and are moving toward rather than the whole of what they feel.
Upright and reversed
What it is like to hold this feeling.
A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.
Upright
The Six of Wands is admiration in public. What they feel has a component of esteem in it — they think well of you, they want other people to know about this, and being associated with you improves how they feel about themselves. That is warmer than it sounds and it carries a caution: this card is responsive to how things look, and a feeling partly built on recognition has a dependency in it. At its best it is genuine respect, which is rarer in a feelings reading than attraction.
Reversed
Reversed, the recognition has failed or has become the point. Either they wanted to be proud of this and something has embarrassed them, or the relationship is being valued for what it demonstrates rather than for what it is.
Reversed in the middle of a suit, the feeling turns inward. What the upright describes as happening between two people becomes something happening privately — unspoken, unadmitted, and frequently invisible from the other side.
Why the suit decides the answer
Fire does not feel the way the other three do.
The same rank in two suits describes two genuinely different states. This is the largest single fact about any card in a feelings position — larger than the picture on it.
Fire does not feel so much as want. A Wands card in a feelings position is describing appetite, momentum and the pull toward — the part of caring that makes somebody act rather than the part that makes them tender.
You will know a Wands feeling by movement. It turns up, it initiates, it makes plans. What it is markedly worse at is sitting still with you when nothing is happening.
Fire mistakes intensity for depth, and it cools without meaning anything by it. A Wands feeling that has gone quiet has usually not turned into a decision; it has simply stopped burning at that particular spot.
Where the feeling is in its arc
The recovery.
At a Six the worst has passed. Something has been repaired, helped or simply outlived, and the feeling has reached workable ground again.
Recovery is not resolution. A Six is gentler than what surrounds it and is easily over-read as an ending to the difficulty rather than a pause in it.
Jupiter in Leo, the second decan. Jupiter is what colours the feeling and Leo is the temperature it runs at, which is why this card cannot mean quite what the ones either side of it mean. The two elements are the same, so nothing here is moderated: this is fire undiluted, at its most characteristic and its least balanced.
The same card, four situations
It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.
Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.
Someone you have just met
For something that has only just started, Fire is the most flattering and least reliable of the four. The heat is genuine and it has had nothing to prove itself against. A number this late in a suit is doing something odd at the start of a connection: it describes a feeling further along than the relationship is, which is worth noticing.
A relationship you are already in
Inside an established relationship, Wands is asking about desire rather than security. It reports whether somebody still moves toward you, which is a different question from whether they intend to stay. Inside something already established, recovery is not resolution. A Six is gentler than what surrounds it and is easily over-read as an ending to the difficulty rather than a pause in it.
Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with
For a connection that has ended, Fire is the suit most likely to return and least likely to have thought about it. Wands reappear because the pull did, not because anything was resolved. This early in the suit the feeling has not finished moving, which is why cards like this one appear so often for endings that did not feel finished.
A feeling neither of you has said out loud
When nothing has been said, a Wands card is usually the easiest of the four to read from outside, because Fire is bad at concealment. If the feeling is there, somebody is already doing something about it. Applied to something unspoken, at a Six the worst has passed. Something has been repaired, helped or simply outlived, and the feeling has reached workable ground again.
The part most readings skip
What this card cannot tell you.
A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.
- A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
- Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
- One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.
Keep going
A feeling is one position in a spread.
The full meaning of Six of Wands — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.
