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Six of Swords — suit of Swords, original illustration from the MyMysticDay tarot deck
Element
Air
Arcana
Minor · Swords
Attribution
Mercury in Aquarius
Feeling shows as
Words and conclusions
Stage
The recovery

Tarot as feelings

Six of Swords
as feelings

They are moving on from the difficulty, and their feelings are travelling with them.

Why

The Six of Swords is a departure taken sadly and sensibly. It is a air card, so what it reports is what they have concluded and are prepared to say rather than the whole of what they feel.

Upright and reversed

What it is like to hold this feeling.

A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.

Upright

The Six of Swords is a departure taken sadly and sensibly. Something painful is being left behind — a period, a pattern, occasionally a relationship — and the movement is toward calmer water rather than away in anger. The feeling is muted rather than absent: this is grief without drama, and a person doing the correct thing while still minding. Where the card is genuinely hopeful is direction. Whatever is being felt is now pointed somewhere, which it was not before.

Reversed

Reversed, the crossing is stalled. They want to move on and cannot, or they have carried the whole of the problem with them to the other side and are surprised to find it there.

Reversed in the middle of a suit, the feeling turns inward. What the upright describes as happening between two people becomes something happening privately — unspoken, unadmitted, and frequently invisible from the other side.

Why the suit decides the answer

Air does not feel the way the other three do.

The same rank in two suits describes two genuinely different states. This is the largest single fact about any card in a feelings position — larger than the picture on it.

What it carries

Air thinks about what it feels. A Swords card in a feelings position is reporting the account somebody has constructed — what they have concluded, what they have told themselves, what they are prepared to say out loud — rather than the raw state underneath it.

How you would notice

You will know a Swords feeling by the presence of a verdict. These cards come with reasoning attached, and the reasoning is doing at least as much work as the emotion is.

Where it misleads

Air mistakes its conclusions for facts. A Swords feeling is only as sound as the information it was built from, and this suit contains the deck's best cards for a story told inwardly until it became true.

Where the feeling is in its arc

The recovery.

At a Six the worst has passed. Something has been repaired, helped or simply outlived, and the feeling has reached workable ground again.

Recovery is not resolution. A Six is gentler than what surrounds it and is easily over-read as an ending to the difficulty rather than a pause in it.

Mercury in Aquarius, the second decan. Mercury is what colours the feeling and Aquarius is the temperature it runs at, which is why this card cannot mean quite what the ones either side of it mean. The two elements are the same, so nothing here is moderated: this is air undiluted, at its most characteristic and its least balanced.

The same card, four situations

It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.

Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.

Someone you have just met

For a new connection, Swords means somebody is assessing rather than falling. That is colder than it sounds and it is not bad news: a judgement formed early tends to hold. A number this late in a suit is doing something odd at the start of a connection: it describes a feeling further along than the relationship is, which is worth noticing.

A relationship you are already in

Inside an established relationship, Swords is almost always about what has been said or withheld. The suit measures the state of the conversation, and in a long relationship the conversation is frequently the whole of the problem. Inside something already established, recovery is not resolution. A Six is gentler than what surrounds it and is easily over-read as an ending to the difficulty rather than a pause in it.

Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with

For a connection that has ended, Swords is the suit of the post-mortem. It describes somebody still working out what happened, and that process can run for a very long time without producing a move. This early in the suit the feeling has not finished moving, which is why cards like this one appear so often for endings that did not feel finished.

A feeling neither of you has said out loud

When nothing has been said, a Swords card is the most literal of the four: the silence is the subject. Something has been thought through and not stated, and the withholding is deliberate. Applied to something unspoken, at a Six the worst has passed. Something has been repaired, helped or simply outlived, and the feeling has reached workable ground again.

The part most readings skip

What this card cannot tell you.

A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.

  • A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
  • Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
  • One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.

Keep going

A feeling is one position in a spread.

The full meaning of Six of Swords — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.

Clear answers

Frequently asked questions

What does Six of Swords mean as feelings?
They are moving on from the difficulty, and their feelings are travelling with them. The Six of Swords is a departure taken sadly and sensibly. It is a air card, so what it reports is what they have concluded and are prepared to say rather than the whole of what they feel.
Is Six of Swords a positive card for feelings?
It is neither good news nor bad news on its own. Air mistakes its conclusions for facts. A Swords feeling is only as sound as the information it was built from, and this suit contains the deck's best cards for a story told inwardly until it became true. What the card actually says is this: they are moving on from the difficulty, and their feelings are travelling with them. Whether that is welcome depends entirely on what you were hoping for, and the card is indifferent to that.
What does Six of Swords reversed mean as feelings?
Reversed, the crossing is stalled. They want to move on and cannot, or they have carried the whole of the problem with them to the other side and are surprised to find it there. Reversed in the middle of a suit, the feeling turns inward. What the upright describes as happening between two people becomes something happening privately — unspoken, unadmitted, and frequently invisible from the other side.
What does Six of Swords mean as how an ex feels about you?
For a connection that has ended, Swords is the suit of the post-mortem. It describes somebody still working out what happened, and that process can run for a very long time without producing a move. This early in the suit the feeling has not finished moving, which is why cards like this one appear so often for endings that did not feel finished.
Does Six of Swords mean they will act on it?
Air states its conclusions, so a Swords feeling tends to become a conversation rather than a gesture. What arrives is usually words, and usually more direct than expected. In the middle of the suit the situation is still moving, which means the answer today is a poor guide to the answer in a month.