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Strength — Major Arcana VIII, original illustration from the MyMysticDay tarot deck
Element
Fire
Arcana
Major
Attribution
Leo
Feeling shows as
A theme running the situation
Stage
The feeling has been mastered without being crushed

Tarot as feelings

Strength
as feelings

They feel it steadily, and they are not going to force anything.

Why

Strength is patient feeling. As a trump it describes a theme large enough to be running the situation rather than a passing mood, which is why it outweighs the cards around it.

Upright and reversed

What it is like to hold this feeling.

A reversal is not the opposite of the upright card. It blocks it, delays it, turns it inward or takes it too far, and which of those depends on the kind of card it is.

Upright

Strength is patient feeling. Whatever is being felt is substantial, and the person holding it is doing so without demanding a resolution — not from indifference but from a genuine capacity to wait. There is tenderness in this card and there is spine underneath it. It is one of the better cards to receive about someone dealing with a difficult situation, because what it describes is affection that does not crack under pressure. It also rarely announces itself, which is how it gets missed.

Reversed

Reversed, the patience has become suppression. The feeling is being managed rather than felt, held down so hard that nothing of it shows, and what looks like calm is effort. It can also mean self-doubt: they feel it and do not believe they are entitled to.

Reversed, a trump is a theme being resisted, delayed or lived out privately. The theme does not disappear when the card is inverted — it goes underground, which is generally harder on everybody than the upright version.

Where the feeling is in its arc

The feeling has been mastered without being crushed.

Strength is the position where something powerful is being held by somebody capable of holding it. The feeling is intact, complete and not running the person.

What is missing is urgency, which from outside can look like a lack of interest. This position waits well and is therefore easy to underestimate.

Attributed to the sign Leo, the fixed fire that rules by warmth rather than by force. A trump carrying a sign describes a climate rather than an event — the weather a feeling is happening in, and weather lasts.

The same card, four situations

It does not mean the same thing for an ex as it does for a stranger.

Each reading below is built from two things that differ card to card: what the element does to a feeling, and how far along that feeling is.

Someone you have just met

A zodiacal trump at the start of something describes the climate the connection is beginning in rather than a reaction to you. What it reports will still be true in a month, which very little else this early will be. Here specifically, strength is the position where something powerful is being held by somebody capable of holding it. The feeling is intact, complete and not running the person.

A relationship you are already in

Inside an established relationship a zodiacal trump names the season the two of you are in. Seasons are long, and what is happening is usually larger than the week it is being felt in. Here specifically, strength is the position where something powerful is being held by somebody capable of holding it. The feeling is intact, complete and not running the person.

Someone who ended it, or who you ended it with

For a connection that has ended, a zodiacal trump describes a condition rather than a decision. It says what the ending was made of and declines to predict whether the weather changes. Here specifically, strength is the position where something powerful is being held by somebody capable of holding it. The feeling is intact, complete and not running the person.

A feeling neither of you has said out loud

When nothing has been said, a zodiacal trump means the silence has a climate to it — a settled condition rather than a held breath, and conditions do not resolve because somebody asks. Here specifically, strength is the position where something powerful is being held by somebody capable of holding it. The feeling is intact, complete and not running the person.

The part most readings skip

What this card cannot tell you.

A feelings position is the one place a reader most wants to be told what they were hoping for, which is exactly why it is the easiest to misread.

  • A card describes a quality of feeling. It does not identify a person, confirm that they are thinking about you at this moment, or guarantee what they will do next — and any reading that offers those things is selling certainty the deck does not contain.
  • Feelings positions are the ones readers most want a particular answer from, which is exactly why they are the easiest to misread. If a card seems to confirm precisely what you hoped, that is the moment to check it against what has actually happened.
  • One card is one input. A feeling that contradicts everything a person has done for six months is a card that needs the rest of the spread, not a card that has revealed a secret.

Keep going

A feeling is one position in a spread.

The full meaning of Strength — upright, reversed, love, career, money and the symbolism the painting carries — is on its own page. If you have not drawn a card yet, the reading below deals a real one.

Clear answers

Frequently asked questions

What does Strength mean as feelings?
They feel it steadily, and they are not going to force anything. Strength is patient feeling. As a trump it describes a theme large enough to be running the situation rather than a passing mood, which is why it outweighs the cards around it.
Is Strength a positive card for feelings?
Trumps are not sorted into good and bad, and this one is no exception: it describes the scale of what is happening rather than its outcome. What the card actually says is this: they feel it steadily, and they are not going to force anything. Whether that is welcome depends entirely on what you were hoping for, and the card is indifferent to that.
What does Strength reversed mean as feelings?
Reversed, the patience has become suppression. The feeling is being managed rather than felt, held down so hard that nothing of it shows, and what looks like calm is effort. It can also mean self-doubt: they feel it and do not believe they are entitled to. Reversed, a trump is a theme being resisted, delayed or lived out privately. The theme does not disappear when the card is inverted — it goes underground, which is generally harder on everybody than the upright version.
What does Strength mean as how an ex feels about you?
For a connection that has ended, a zodiacal trump describes a condition rather than a decision. It says what the ending was made of and declines to predict whether the weather changes. Here specifically, strength is the position where something powerful is being held by somebody capable of holding it. The feeling is intact, complete and not running the person.
Does Strength mean they will act on it?
A trump describes a theme rather than an intention, so it says a great deal about the weather and very little about the decision taken in it. The card is large enough that whatever happens will not be small.